Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Oops

I forgot to blog about the other page of the draft I wrote on friendship. So here goes.

  • Friends should support each other. This doesn't mean that Friend A should ditch Friend B for Friend C. I mean, if Friend C did not do anything to Friend A, why should Friend A ditch Friend C.

  • Listen to friends. LISTEN. It is best to listen to positive feedback and ignore if it is negative feedback.

  • Friendships are very important and they are always by your side. So we should appreciate them. What happens if you got no friends at all?


From what I have said so far, I know it is hard to fulfill them so we should always forgive our friends if they did something wrong or bad. Who is perfect anyway? You are not, I am not, your friends are not.

4 comments:

lynnx01 said...

Yes, we should not only hear, but LISTEN. Hearing and listening is quite different.

Yea, that is true.

Shahli Cantik said...

"Listen to friends. LISTEN. It is best to listen to positive feedback and ignore if it is negative feedback."

I agree that you should listen to your friends. GOOD friends, of course. However i do think that you shouldn't ignore a negative feedback, if it's coming from a good friend. From a GOOD friend only. Your good friends only have your best interest at heart, so whatever negative thing they say about you, it is because they know you can be a better person, so they want to steer you to the better path. And if this friend is a good friend, it would surely be in - umm - what's the word... in confident? Something to do with confidential... Shayte, whatever the word is. But he or she would tell whatever the negative thing is to you and only you, and not to anyone else, because, people, that's when he or she gets called 'bitch' (guys can be bitchy too. seriousss). Then this person is no longer a good friend, kan? Ikan kan? Ikan salmon? Am i right or left? So, ya, before i start saying funny things (no not ha-ha funny), i want to stress that this only my OPINION and i could be wrong. Thank you very berry much. Hee =) Oh and any reply to my comment here is welcome! Especially yours, Jas. Emma too. Har de har. Yehhh.

yay, finally li commented. and yes, i shd have included wat u said. no wonder i kept on thinking why it is so short. i so agree with wat u said. u r not wrong. I was wondering who is Shahli Cantik until i read the comment. Hahaha.. what a funny name. =)

Ally said...

it takes two to tango and three to party.. :)
that's what friends are for, whenever you need them and they need you.. you would also tend to accept their everything, including their weaknesses as well.

yes, that is true. i think if you want to remain friends with a certain person, you have to accept their weakness and for who they are. you can't just remain friends and blame them forever, otherwise you wouldn't be accepted into their group as in they won't want you to join them for anything.

em said...

I agree with Shahli Cantik

=)