Thursday, May 08, 2008

Define

I have been wondering about this for quite some time. How do you define betrayal on friendship?

I have the idea of a friend go behind another friend back to steal boyfriend. Or it could be doing something bad, as in something embarrassing and of bad rumours, not about bitching but I mean, rumours of you stealing a guy or something like that.

So what is your opinions?

7 comments:

pyroboy1911 said...

hhmm...why is it all about stealing someone's guy? :P

Well, I have the idea of tat but I cannot think of the definition of betrayal other than tat, which is why i need your opinions. =)

My Joyful Days said...

stealing people bf can't be defined as betrayal eh..
3 of my friends were in such condition. It was very 'interesting'

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cannot be defined? then, what is the real definition of betrayal?
wow.. so interesting tat 3 of ur frens are in tat condition, must be hard. im very curious to know how they deal with it.

Ally said...

betrayal in a friendship can be defined. well, only by those who had experieced such incident(s) before and i happened to be one.

i think hypocrisy is the main betrayer in friendships. it is very hurtful to know that a friend is not keeping to what s/he has told you, and went on to say different things to others. it is most hurtful when it is a very good friend of yours who betrayed your trust.

in the end, i chose to forgive this friend of mine. i see no point in being vengeful or to be as bad as this betrayer. we're still friends. i may have forgiven, but the scar will still be there and it shall never be forgotten..

=( sigh.. and u experienced one. i guess life is like that but yes, i do see how hypocrisy is connected now. =) Yea.. the scar will be there and we prob won't forget about it forever.

Lynnwei said...

i think betrayal is the worst feeling..ahaha..erm...betrayal of friendship..is when you trust someone/friend with ur deepest thought, your dreams..etc..and they sort of go behind ur back and crush it...

i dunno...but even if u are feeling tat today, know tat it's not the end....there are stil alot of people tat loves you!

no, im not feeling that but i was just wondering because i want to know if the 2 friends that i thought might have betrayed me are really betraying friendship. anyways, i have forgotten about it and forgive them. but i nv talk to them after that.

lynnx01 said...

It depends on the real motive and intention, actually... hmm.. I wanna elaborate more but I need to go medical museum to study pelvic bones now. Hehe

Take your time to elaborate more. I will be waiting. =)

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