Discussion

On the previous post of 'Quoting', the quoting comes from a girl in love point of view. The comment comes from other point of view/thoughts. Don't get me wrong. I don't want anyone to think that I am criticizing them or say they are wrong. No one is right or wrong. All of us just think differently. We can try to understand each other. Anyhow, here are my thoughts after hearing from both of them.

If you choose not to understand the quoting, that's your problem, but don't complain. If you choose to understand, thank you. I admit that I did choose not to understand before and I apologized to the person for behaving that way. I cannot tell how ashamed I was when I admit my mistake.



sometimes, the cause of a failing relationship is because the couple spends too much time together..there is a risk of the relationship getting mundane, and perhaps even you losing some friendships.. if you spend all your time with ur bf, in some ways, you’re decreasing your social circle..and sometimes, that decision has certain implications..especially towards other friendships..

also, why must “the break” come only in marriages? why cant it happen during the courtship/dating period? doesn’t that strengthen the relationship in a way, and help you see the relationship more objectively and less impulsively?

lets say a friend invites you for a movie, and so does your boyfriend, and they both want to watch different movies but at the same time..and you have to choose either one..
who would you prioritise? who would you choose?

tricky eh..hehe..

just my thoughts!
sorry for the long comment.. ;p



I have to agree with her on this. She does have a point. I can’t ignore that. That is why; we have to be wise in choosing our decisions. What I say is, don’t just ignore your friends entirely. It’s not just from this person’s part as well. I think the friends have to understand and help out as much as they can in the friendships’ love way. I sound so cheesy when it comes to this. I guess why that is why no one takes me seriously.

Quoting

Say we have free time, and if it so happens our boyfriend is free as well, it's alright to put our boyfriend first, and hang out with friends later. We understand it doesn't at all mean we love our friends lesser, it's just that we choose to be understanding, and just not selfish, because you know that's how YOU yourself about your boyfriend. You just want to spend all your time with him, you can't help it. And for sure, someone who hasn't been through it herself would never understand this.
And do you notice that when couples are dating, they spend all their time together, but when they get married, they MAKE time for their friends? It's like, the normal cycle of life. It happens to almost everyone. You need a break. But when you're mabuk cinta, it's different. You just want to be with that person every second of the day. Not to say that married people cannot be mabuk cinta, but you're secure, and you know you're coming back home to him, and he is coming back home to you. That's the difference.

I already ask this friend's permission if I can publish what she said. I don't think I could ever explain like this to anyone.

Multi-tasking

This is not a sudden burst of posts. It's just that I blog at different times, eg morning, afternoon and night. You know like, you feel the urge to blog in the morning, then after you finished classes for the day, you feel the urge to blog again.

Anyways, my title says it all. I am currently multi-tasking. Blogging and reading my notes at the same time.

I think my photos are all 'cacat-ed'. Some are left on the left side, middle or the right side. Ahh.. don't care. Anyway, the photo above was taken during one of ICF social nights. It's making me hungry now. I better cook lunch for myself.

This was the Pavlova that Renee made. It was really nice.

Oh yea, I wanted to share something humourous. My friends and I were chatting one night. We were talking about relationships and Sharz asked me when did I had my first bf, I answered first year. Cal commented that I am a late bloomer. So Em commented back, 'so what am I? A senior bloomer?' (she hasn't been in a bf/gf relationship) It's just so funny that she thought she is a senior bloomer. Don't worry, I already asked her if I can put it in blog.

Side note: New diet pills?