Monday, January 12, 2009
Discussion
On the previous post of 'Quoting', the quoting comes from a girl in love point of view. The comment comes from other point of view/thoughts. Don't get me wrong. I don't want anyone to think that I am criticizing them or say they are wrong. No one is right or wrong. All of us just think differently. We can try to understand each other. Anyhow, here are my thoughts after hearing from both of them.
If you choose not to understand the quoting, that's your problem, but don't complain. If you choose to understand, thank you. I admit that I did choose not to understand before and I apologized to the person for behaving that way. I cannot tell how ashamed I was when I admit my mistake.
sometimes, the cause of a failing relationship is because the couple spends too much time together..there is a risk of the relationship getting mundane, and perhaps even you losing some friendships.. if you spend all your time with ur bf, in some ways, you’re decreasing your social circle..and sometimes, that decision has certain implications..especially towards other friendships..
also, why must “the break” come only in marriages? why cant it happen during the courtship/dating period? doesn’t that strengthen the relationship in a way, and help you see the relationship more objectively and less impulsively?
lets say a friend invites you for a movie, and so does your boyfriend, and they both want to watch different movies but at the same time..and you have to choose either one..
who would you prioritise? who would you choose?
tricky eh..hehe..
just my thoughts!
sorry for the long comment.. ;p
I have to agree with her on this. She does have a point. I can’t ignore that. That is why; we have to be wise in choosing our decisions. What I say is, don’t just ignore your friends entirely. It’s not just from this person’s part as well. I think the friends have to understand and help out as much as they can in the friendships’ love way. I sound so cheesy when it comes to this. I guess why that is why no one takes me seriously.
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i guess different people have different views, some likes to be with friends coz more fun when in group, while some think spending time with partner shows your commitment and responsibility that he or she is willing to take. but others also have to be considerate, dun tell me you also keep on asking that person out if you know he or she already have the other half?
couple who start dating are always like that one la, as if there's no tumoro so need to be with each other all the time. but after a while, they will manage to give each other some space and time away from each other..at least that's what i noticed la :lol:
It would be great if you can go movies with both the boyfriend and friends.. yes, I know both of you need time together alone, but I always feel it's healthier to have the company of others around you as well. I don't know lah... this is an inexperience person talking at the moment. Hhaaa
of cos u won't keep asking the person (who already has another half) but it wud be nice to ask the person out once in a blue moon, isnt it?
yea, see? u also agree that others have to be considerate.
hahaha. once in a while to have company along wud be good la.
it's not a problem to go to movies with bfs and friends but what happens if there are only 3 of u? im sure some ppl dun like to be third wheel.
this is fun discussion hoh.. hahaha..
Then got light bulb... kacau daun, what else ah? Haha, but I believe it depends on different people. When a guy was pursuing my friend.. he asked her to go rojak. She asked me along and we had a good time chatting in the car. The whole drive down to Subang my head was stuck in between the two front passenger seats chit chatting away.. ahahha
hmm.. 3rd person? but this is not as funny as the light bulb or kacau daun.
i guess it does depend on ppl. haha imagine u with ur head stuck between the passengers seat. some ppl think it's better to be in a group, some don't.
wat u think leh?
think about wat? did i not say much?
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